Thursday, January 31, 2013

Potty Training before 20months - is that possible?

In the past I've talked about the trend toward later and later potty training and the role that the diaper industry has played in persuading parents that waiting is a good idea. After all, the longer children are in diapers, the more money they make! To help reverse this trend, The Baby Sign Program (that I teach) show us that uses signing to enable babies to signal the need to go long before they have words is helpful. In fact, our goal is to help parents get their children trained by age 24 – 30 months.

But are children “ready” that early? The question arises because parents frequently hear that it’s best to wait until a child is “ready” for potty training before beginning the process. But what exactly does the term “ready” mean? For the answer we turn to the American Academy of Pediatrics’ (AAP) Guide to Toilet Training (2003). According to the AAP, parents should watch for readiness in three specific developmental domains: physical, cognitive, and emotional. Over the next few postings, we’ll take a closer look at what’s required in each case starting with physical readiness.

According to the AAP, in order to actively participate in potty training, children must be physically able to:

• Sense when they need to eliminate
• Delay elimination long enough to get to the potty
• Sit independently on a potty chair

At what age do these skills typically appear? This is an easy question to answer based on the information about the history of potty training I described in my posting last week. If you’ve had a chance to read that entry you may remember the fact that before the invention of the disposable diaper in the early 1960s, children in the United States were routinely trained by 18 months! Is there any reason to suspect that children have changed so radically over the last 50 years that they’ve completely lost these physical abilities? Obviously not! If that was the norm up until the 1960s, then clearly children today are physically ready for potty training well before age 2.

In other words, it’s simply a cop out (as my son would say) to use a lack of “physical readiness” as an excuse to delay potty training until children are 3-years-old.

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Saturday, January 26, 2013

Mom Boast

Each time I feel discouraged about running a business and having this passion of baby signing something amazing happens. I was approached by the Abbotsford paper interested in doing an article on my business and baby signing.
I was hired by the Clearbrook Library to run a Parent Workshop and the class filled within 2 weeks with a waiting list growing large.
I have 2 moms already signed up for my class in late Feb which I am confident will fill quickly.
I recieved this great article having Gerber baby boast and promote my baby signs program which I teach.

So many windows and opportunities opening. My babies are talking, signing and laughing every day because of all my hard work and attention.

It's about time moms boast about what we do best, LOVE!

Let me know about your mom boast today!